Wednesday, March 10, 2010

What factors affect Relationships?

Relationships are very intriguing, they show ones relationships with others. What is it that affects a persons desire to be around a person? For me, I like to be around people that care about my feelings. I know that hanging around people for their money can also be a factor in relationships. People that have high moral standards and live them are the kind of people that I like to be around.

I don't understand how you can be friends or in a relationship with someone that doesn't care about your feelings. Friends care about each other, they look out for each other. I know many people that have entered into relationships that are dysfunctional relationships because the girl/boy aren't willing to listen. I find that this happens most when a person asks a person out because of their looks or the style of clothes that they wear. This is a bad idea. You CANNOT buy love.

Money is an interesting thing. In my opinion it is terrible how it has torn relationships apart or brought them together in a way that is almost sicking. I have known of couples that have completely split up their marriage because things were going down hill, work wise. I have also heard of young women marrying older men that are rich, just for the fortune. We live in a perverse and wicked world, and we can only hope that some people have the decency to get to know someone because they love them.

I like to be around people that have morals. The friends that I have have standards set and they live them. I believe that this is so important in a good relationship. If you are in a relationship with a person that sets standards, and lives them, you know that you can trust them. Trust is such a key component in a good relationship. If you truly trust a person, you know that they won't be talking behind your back or that they wouldn't ever do anything to offend you.

In conclusion, I would like to review some of the things that I talked about in my essay. I know that if you are involved in a relationship because of the money you will not find happiness. I encourage all who read this to set their morals and standards high. If you do this others who have high standards will be attracted to you. In my life I have found this theory to be very applicable. I hope that you take care who you hang out with, or date, because it could change your life forever.

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